Helping divorced men and fathers reclaim clarity, strength, and purpose—through the practice of ancient martial arts.

Divorce offers a challenging and unique experience that can leave us feeling stuck, lost, and uncertain about what to do next.

That’s where I come in.

I’ve been through it—as a child and as a adult, and it was martial arts that carried me through it all.

I seek to pay it forward by offering personalized programs aimed at getting you to the next chapter.

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Jeff Stillion

“This is not therapy, but the process might be therapeutic.

And this is not advice, but you might discover wisdom you’ve had all along.

This is structured, solution-focused personal growth through applied practice.”

- Jeff

If this is you…

  • You’re a divorced man or father in your 30s or 40s

  • You feel lost, unanchored, or uncertain about what’s next

  • You’ve been stuck—professionally, emotionally, or spiritually

  • You’re tired of drifting and ready to rebuild with purpose

  • You crave structure, discipline, and deeper self-respect

  • You want to lead your life again—from a place of clarity and strength

—then I’m here to help.

Victory over others is the lesser. Victory over the self is the greater.
— Takuan Soho

Services

  • Rebuild from Within
    A personalized coaching experience designed to assess where you are, and where you want to be. Together, we’ll create solutions to get you moving forward.

  • Reset. Reclaim. Refocus.
    A focused sprint to regain your center, restore your vision, and move with purpose again.

  • Martial Art Practices
    In-person or virtual workshops where we integrate effective principles & techniques into a personalized application.

You have power over your mind — not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength
— Marcus Aurelius

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